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Wednesday, 7 October 2015

PickUp Lines Nigerian Guys To Woo Ladies, Know If They're Honest Too

This post was actually meant to help young and innocent Nigerian women out there to understand the way we Nigerian guys think..cos guys always wanna whine and twist your senses into believing that you're the only apple in their eyes when most of the time, it's not true. So here is a list of some of their pickup and deceitful lines they use to trap ladies

1.] Baby I can't sleep or eat without you : 
Lol..used this line a lot of times too, the guy when he says this has probably eaten " morning, afternoon and night food" he has slept peacefully from the hours of 10pm to 8am..he has been enjoying himself very well..he's just saying this to make you feel important and spark your small mind 

2.] I've been thinking about you lately : 
This usually always refers to pervertism..a symptom  of sexual attraction the guy may have for you. ..he says this to make you feel important and cared for
.he says this to make you let down your guard for him so he will move to the next phase of his wicked plan

3.] Baby you're looking tantalizing : 
Now....this one was invented when Tantalizers came out newly.. its a restaurant..eatery more like..the guy only says this when maybe what you're wearing is suitable to him..or maybe what you're wearing is exposing a body part to him..thats when they say this sometimes 
The first  thing you should do that instant is to say "osheyy" and then use style to walk away fast before he rapes you ..because Lagos guys are unpredictable 

4.] Baby I'll die if you don't be my girl : 
First ask yourself why is he alive..thats number one..number two just know he can't die..he's not that desperate for you . He's probably alive living his life, he's just saying that to make you feel necessary and important to him..its a normal thing jaree..when he takes rat poison for you or stabs himself..ehen..then you can say he was truthful 

5.] Baby am crazy about you : 
Ask yourself why he isn't mad first..when he lands inside Yaba Left then you may believe him .because they usually say this one to express their feelings..sometimes this may be true of course..but most of the time it's just to get you into their trap..only good hearted guys mean this when they say it. And if you ask me that's really romantic *winks* 

So these are the main rampant ones, and am not saying all guys are bad..just be careful of the ones who approach you, not all of them may have that nice heart or true feelings ish..so be really careful
And have a good day too. Also remember to support me by dropping your comments or emailing me on " chinaydum@gmail.com " . Thanks and remember to have a nice day once again 

Tuesday, 6 October 2015

The Nigerian Teenage Romance and Their Mistakes

In life, people fall in love at many stages. It is very possible for every person no matter their age to feel or fall in love. However, there is a certain stage in life where we reach and everyone seems to want love. I'm talking about the teenage years and love. When a teenager falls in love, it is referred to as teenage love. Teens are very volatile people and this is pretty understandable. It is the first time in life to feel the urge to love the opposite sex. This is on the onset of their physical growth. Their hormones are usually referred to as running wild and this is very much the case. Teenage is a confusing place to be because you are not old enough to be called mature and you are not too young to be called a child. This is the time where most youth act out and when it comes to the matters of the heart, a lot of them fall in love. Teenage love has sometimes been referred to as not being real love. Instead, experts say that a lot of feelings that teens have for the opposite sex is mainly infatuation. This is a form of lust that passes with time. However, love being hard to define, it is vital that all cases be looked at differently. It is during this stage that many teens make the worse mistakes of their lives but, this is usually not the case in other situations. Sexually, teens what to experience and explore first hand, the kind of emotions that are associated with love. It is therefore paramount to understand exactly what they are going through before you are quick to give them advice. The biggest issue that is always a source of debate is sex during teenage.

Many want to know what it is all about. Others believe that for love to be real there must be sexual intercourse. With the modern world, more and more teens are having choices when it comes to sex. Many have not come up openly to condemn teenage sex. In the past, when young people reached teenage, this was a time for them to be married off. For this reason, teens cannot be totally condemned for wanting to exercise that which has been there since time began. However, with civilization, more and more parents have come out strongly to condemn any love consummation for their teens. The question whether this is real love or not, still remains as more teens get involved emotionally with other people. One thing that we can say for sure is that, if the love during teenage is not real; the person involved will have to learn through experience. Thankfully, teenage is only a phase of life and as you grow, you will discover things and become wiser in the matter of love. However, when it comes to love, no one can claim to be an expert. It comes without mention and no one has control over it. Therefore, the best thing that teens can do is to empower themselves and know how to handle themselves when it comes to matters of the heart. Otherwise, love is meant to be enjoyed to the fullest.